As the Facilitator it is my role to guide the client and the representatives during the constellation. At any point you can raise your hand and ask for clarification or help. This work is always a collaboration.
 

• Most of what we experience in Family Constellations is felt. Allow yourself to feel your body. 
• Stay neutral and avoid making any interpretations or assumptions. Simply describe what you observe without any expectations about your role.
• When we are grounded to the earth and centered, all the energies we are connected with during the constellation flow more effortlessly through us.
• Don’t attempt to fix or cause something to happen in the constellation.
• The more clearly you can express your feelings in your representation, the better. During the process, set aside your interpretations, judgments, or pity. Our goal is to acknowledge what is.  
• Don’t worry about whether you’re doing it right or wrong. Whatever happens in the constellation is valuable information. If you don’t feel anything, that might be exactly what’s needed in the constellation. 
• Take care of yourself during the constellation. Avoid going too deep into your representation or experiencing physical discomfort during the process.
• During your representation, I’ll ask you questions about your feelings or suggest sentences or movements. Please refrain from sharing anything until I ask. I may allow a representation to speak freely, but if I ask you to stop, please do so.
• If you feel what you are representing needs to stand or move, check with me first.
• If I suggest a sentence that is not right in the role, you can change it to what feels right to what you are representing or not say it. 
• If you possess the gift of channeling or using mediumship, please refrain from doing so during the constellations. Instead, focus on the emotions and energies you are representing.
• When the process is complete, please let go of what you are representing and step back. If you encounter any difficulties with this, please let me know. 
• Representatives should not discuss the constellation after it has concluded. Under certain circumstances some discussion may be possible as long as it does not undermine the constellation or cause harm to those involved. I will make this determination.  Clients should also refrain from asking representatives about their experiences.