In Family Constellations healing sentences help to release entanglements.

Better me than you.
You have a place with us.
I am responsible for my part, and I leave your part with you.
I am the little one and you are the big one. You give and I take.
I do it for you
I give you place in my heart.
It’s all right.
I leave it with you, with love.
I honor you and your fate.
I suffer in your place.
I take this life even at the price it has cost you.
I take this life with everything it entails.
I take you as my parents and you may have me as your child.
​You came first.
​It is your burden to carry, not mine and I let go of it now.
Mother, please be friendly with me if I stand with my father.
Please be kind to me and look friendly on me.
There has to be a price for what you did, and you must pay it.
What happens between us as your parents, it’s our business and we will take care of it.
You are only a child.
What I couldn't get from you, I will take from others
Would you die to protect your wife and children?
You are the first wife; she is the second.
You have a place with us.
Your loss was my gain.
Your time is over.

*Most of these come from Bert Hellinger or are based on his work.

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