About Family Constellations | How It Works & What to Expect

Family Constellations is a therapeutic approach designed to uncover and resolve hidden patterns and emotional entanglements passed down through generations. These unconscious dynamics, often rooted in unresolved trauma, loss, or broken family bonds, can profoundly affect your relationships, health, career, and sense of self

At its core, this method is based on the idea that unresolved trauma, entanglements, or imbalances in a family, sometimes going back generations, can unconsciously influence present-day emotions, behaviors, and experiences. These influences can manifest as: chronic emotional or physical issues, repeating life patterns, relationship struggles, a sense of being stuck, or disconnected.

Family Constellation Therapy helps uncover how entanglements with suffering that actually belong to family members or ancestors. It is a therapeutic process in which hidden dynamics can be revealed and repaired, freeing you to form healthier connections with the people in your life.

Family Constellation Private Sessions, Groups & Workshops

  • Online Private Family Constellation Session

    Online Private Sessions

    Experience deep, meaningful healing in a safe and confidential online environment with one-on-one or couples Family Constellations sessions guided by Barry Krost.

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    Online Group Sessions

    Each month, Barry Krost facilitates an online Family Constellations group session to explore the hidden dynamics and ancestral patterns within your family system.

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    Chicago Group Sessions

    Monthly in-person Family Constellations group sessions in the Chicago area offer a powerful, community-centered healing experience to uncover and release hidden family and ancestral patterns.

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  • Family Constellations Online Workshops

    Online Special Topic Workshops

    Barry Krost offers online Family Constellations special topic workshops designed to uncover and release hidden family dynamics and ancestral patterns.

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  • Online Private Session with Representatives

    A private session supported by live representatives who volunteer to take part in your constellation, allowing deeper dynamics to emerge and be experienced directly.

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  • Chicago Family Constellations Intensive Workshop

    Chicago 4-Day Intensive Workshop

    Restoring Harmony, Wholeness and Balance to Our Family System and for Ourselves. A 4-day Intensive Workshop in Chicago, August 13 - 16, 2026.

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How Family Constellations Works

Family Constellations is a living, experiential process rather than a talk-based method.

In a session, we begin by identifying what you would like to explore—such as a relationship, life pattern, or physical or emotional challenge.

From there, the constellation unfolds:

  • In group sessions, participants represent members of your family system

  • In private sessions, objects or visualization are used

  • In some online sessions, live representatives may be included

As the constellation develops, representatives or elements begin to reflect the underlying dynamics of the system. This allows hidden patterns, loyalties, and unresolved events to become visible.

Through this process, a new ordering can emerge—often bringing a sense of relief, clarity, and reconnection.

The Role of the Knowing Field

One of the most unique aspects of Family Constellations is its connection to what is often called the “knowing field.”

This refers to an informational field through which hidden family and systemic dynamics can become visible during a constellation. Participants may experience emotions, sensations, or impulses that reflect relationships or events within a family system—even without prior knowledge.

This can offer insight beyond what is available through family stories alone, revealing deeper patterns that may be influencing the present.

Ways to Experience Family Constellations

There are several ways to experience Family Constellations, depending on the level of depth, support, and setting you are looking for:

Private Family Constellation Sessions (Online)

A one-to-one process where we explore hidden family patterns, generational trauma, and relationship dynamics in a safe and confidential setting. Many clients begin with a private online Family Constellation session to explore a specific issue in depth.

Private Online Family Constellation Session with Representatives

A private session supported by live representatives who volunteer to take part in your constellation, allowing deeper dynamics to emerge and be experienced directly.

Online Family Constellation Group Sessions

Monthly group sessions where 3–5 constellations are created. You may participate as a client, representative, or observer.

In-Person Family Constellation Group Sessions in Chicago

Live group Family Constellation sessions in Chicago where participants gather in person to take part as clients, representatives, or observers.

Family Constellation Workshops (Special Topics)

Workshops focused on specific themes, combining teaching, experiential exercises, and 1–2 constellations.

What Can Family Constellations Help With?

Family Constellations can support a wide range of challenges, including:

  • Relationship difficulties and family conflict

  • Anxiety, depression, and emotional patterns

  • Unresolved grief and trauma

  • Generational or inherited trauma

  • Feeling stuck, disconnected, or burdened

  • Repeating patterns in relationships, health, or success

Rather than focusing only on the individual, this work explores how these challenges may be connected to deeper family and systemic dynamics.

What to Expect in a Session

A typical session may include:

  • Identifying the issue or pattern you would like to explore

  • Setting up the constellation (with representatives or markers)

  • Observing movements, sensations, and relational dynamics

  • Allowing a new ordering or resolution to emerge

  • Integration and reflection after the process

Insights often continue to unfold after the session as the work integrates.

Is Family Constellations Right for You?

You may benefit from this work if:

  • You notice patterns that don’t shift despite your efforts

  • You feel connected to something larger than your personal story

  • You are open to an experiential, body-based process

  • You are willing to explore family and generational influences

Take the Next Step

Whether you are drawn to the shared experience of an online or in-person group, the focused depth of a private session, the added dimension of a session with live representatives, or the structure of a themed workshop, Family Constellations offers several ways to begin.

You can explore online Family Constellation group sessions, in-person Family Constellation group sessions in Chicago, private Family Constellation sessions, private online session Family Constellation with representatives, or Family Constellation workshops to find the approach that fits you best.

Are you new to Family Constellation therapy and want to learn more? You can explore resources or book a free online consultation.

  • ​Many clients report powerful insights and emotional shifts after just one session. Family Constellation Therapy is not about talk therapy or analysis—it works on a deeper, energetic, and systemic level. While results vary, clients often feel more clarity, emotional relief, and improved relationships. At Healing Body Therapeutics, we've seen this process support lasting change for those open to healing intergenerational patterns.

  • The Knowing Field is an informational field experienced in Family Constellations that allows hidden family and systemic dynamics to become visible. Through this field, representatives may sense emotions, impulses, or physical experiences that reflect relationships and patterns within a client’s family—often without any prior knowledge. This can reveal what has been unseen or unspoken, and support movement toward greater clarity, connection, and resolution.Item description

  • ​No. Family Constellation Therapy works with your internal image of your family. In both group and individual settings, representatives (or objects in virtual sessions) are used to access the family system and reveal hidden patterns.

  • Yes. Online sessions use symbolic tools or guided visualizations to represent family members and dynamics. Barry Krost offers online private and group sessions that are just as powerful and transformative as in-person constellations.

  • ​Yes, when guided by a trained facilitator. At Healing Body Therapeutics, safety and consent are prioritized. While deep emotions may surface, the process is held gently with the intention of integration and healing—not re-traumatization.

  • Some clients experience significant shifts after just one session, while others benefit from multiple sessions over time. The number of sessions depends on your goals and the complexity of the issue. Healing is a process that unfolds uniquely for each person.

  • While side effects are generally positive, such as increased awareness and emotional release, some individuals may experience temporary discomfort as old wounds or suppressed feelings surface. This is part of the healing process. At Healing Body Therapeutics, Barry Krost ensures each session is supported with care, integration, and grounding practices.